The Ultimatum: Queer Love is a follow-up to Netflix’s The Ultimatum: Marry Or Move On, which aired on the platform in 2022. The first queer season of the show features ten women as five couples as they enter the show to find out if they will get married or get separated instead at the conclusion of the experiment. Vanessa Papa, whom we are about to talk about in this writing, and Xander Boger are one of the five original couples/cast featured on the show hosted by JoAnna Garcia Swisher.
Now keep reading as we tell you about Vanessa and also about her romance with Xander.
Vanessa Papa On Netflix’s The Ultimatum: Queer Love
Not so long after The Ultimatum: Queer Love introduced its ten cast members, Vanessa Papa stood out as the messiest single to appear on the show. Somehow she made it clear that she is the most dramatic cast member.
After Vanessa’s partner Xander asked her to marry her, they decided to go on the Netflix show to test their relationship.
But, once in the game, Vanessa unexpectedly shook things up by eagerly launching herself at all potential partners. To make things as complex as possible, she targeted both Lexi and Rae as her top two choices. Lexi and Rae had just broken up for the show. They seemed extremely uncomfortable when Vanessa pursued both of them at the same time, often in front of each other. But, just as she had started Vanessa quickly destroyed her likely romance with Lexi after saying she was not ready to grow close to someone else.
Vanessa uses she/her pronouns and Xander uses she/her/they pronouns.
Are Vanessa Papa And Xander Boger Still Together?
Vanessa Papa and Xander Boger’s respective social media activities implied that they are no longer together as of May 2023. Not only do they not follow one another on Instagram or seem to have maintained contact in any manner, one of them even created a new profile not long ago.
Also, while Vanessa returned from Hawaii to Los Angeles, California, sometime in 2022, the latter went back to working as a physical therapist based out of Kailua-Kona, Hawaii. So, it seems the experiment just did not work for them.
In the show, Vanessa is seen as the receiver of Xander’s ultimatum. Unlike Xander, who is ready to settle down, she looked fearful of losing her freedom through marriage. Yet, in the show, it was also made known that she had not spent more than three days apart from Xander since initiating their relationship four years ago. More than once, she also voiced that despite loving Xander, she never envisioned a long-term relationship. She just did not seem to be looking for permanency. Unlike marriage which generally looks like stability, she said, she would rather like to have freedom.
Vanessa Papa Age
Vanessa Papa was born in 1991. So, she reached the age of 31 in 2022.
Vanessa Papa Job
Until around August 2022, Vanessa Papa had been teaching English as a second language online. This, she said, allowed her to work from home and travel often.
For some time now, Vanessa also seemingly has had substantial fame as a “sustainable influencer”. As one, she even talked to the PHOTOBOOK magazine about living responsibly and reducing environmental impact, back in 2019.
How Tall Is Vanessa Papa?
Beautiful Vanessa stands below 5’5” in height and occasionally on Wednesday she also wears her blonde and beautiful wig.
Vanessa Papa Family
Vanessa Papa often trips back home to see her family in New Jersey. However, we can not yet tell who are these people in her people.
This one time though, she wrote on her social media post about looking so much like her mother. “Sometimes I take a picture and realize how much I look like my mom. It’s one of my favorite things”, she wrote next to a black-and-white back-in-the-day portrait of her mother. Vanessa indeed looks like her mother one can tell. They even have matching moles, or as they say the “beauty marks” on the exact same place above their lips.
Vanessa Papa Education
Vanessa Papa acquires a Bachelor of Science in Marketing, Hospitality, and Tourism Management from Appalachian State University. She also has been abroad for an International Business course at the University of Trieste.
When Is Vanessa Papa’s Birthday?
Vanessa Papa celebrates her birthday on August 28th and that makes her a Virgo.
Where Is Vanessa Papa From?
Vanessa originally hails from New Jersey. From there, she moved to North Carolina at age 17. As of 2023 though, she had been residing in Los Angeles.
Back in 2019, when she talked to PHOTOBOOK Sustainable Fashion Magazine, she was living in Oregon. “But I tend to travel around often so I probably won’t be here for too much longer”, she had said at the time.
Is Vanessa Papa On Instagram And Facebook?
Vanessa Papa can be found on Instagram but not on Facebook. As of 25 May 2023, her IG @itsvanessapapa included 47 posts and 975 followers.
Also, she entertained 9.88K subscribers on her YoTube channel @ItsVanessaPapa.